What is sexual wellness?

Sexual wellness is our overall state of mental, physical and emotional wellbeing in relation to sexual health and pleasure. It includes sexual satisfaction, safe sex practices, and sexual relationships (with ourselves and others) and involves understanding and prioritizing what brings us sexual joy. Looking after our sexual wellness can help boost our self-esteem and confidence, help us know our bodies better, and generally enhance our lives. We can look after our sexual wellness in so many ways, such as good sex education, self-awareness, regular check-ins and check-ups, communication, and using tools to enhance pleasure or intimacy.

Am I doing well sexually?

Think of your sex life. We often think about a sex life that is going well, or not, and whether it’s good or bad. But really, we’re probably not considering the whole picture. Are you only thinking about sex with a partner? Are you including your pleasure satisfaction? And, not how much sex you have (both solo or partnered) but how it makes you feel? What it means to do ‘well’ sexually differs from person to person. It can include sexual self-esteem, respect and safety, past and present experiences, autonomy of your sex life, and comfort with sexuality. When you prioritize your physical and emotional wellbeing in your sex life, it’s likely you are doing well. If you have any concerns or questions about your sexual health, don’t hesitate to reach out to a healthcare provider for support.

What are sexual wellness products?

Sexual wellness products help us look after our sexual wellbeing. They ultimately enhance our relationships with ourselves (and others), our pleasure, and sexual satisfaction. These products bring sexual joy and come in many forms; tools such as vibrators or butt plugs, lubricants to decrease pain, massage oils for extra intimacy, candles to set the mood, and condoms for safe sex.

A Playful Guide to Phone Sex

Hey, dear partners! Today, we’re going to talk about a more intimate topic – phone sex! Yes, the phone can be a stylish prop to maintain intimacy in our relationships. Don’t worry; we’ll guide you in a relaxed manner on how to add excitement to your phone calls and let your partner feel your love!

1. Fashionable Warm-up

A good start is half the battle, right? Before engaging in phone sex, find a comfortable and quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. Dress up nicely because confidence always enhances your charm!

2. Elegant Eloquence

Talking to your partner is like attending a fashion show – showcase your eloquence. Use a gentle voice and flirtatious words to make your partner feel loved. Don’t forget to sprinkle some jokes to add a touch of fun to phone sex.

3. Thoughtful Prop Styling

Phone sex is not just about verbal communication; you can use some props to add spice. For example, prepare some sexy lingerie for yourself and describe it to your partner with your voice to ignite their passion. Or, you can play adult versions of games together over the phone, filling your hearts and bodies with pleasure.

4. Respecting Boundaries

Remember, always respect your partner’s boundaries. If they are not comfortable with phone sex or show any signs of discomfort, stop immediately. Respect for each other’s wishes is the essence of any relationship.

5. Dialogue Details

In phone sex, details make all the difference. Try using vivid words to describe your feelings and desires, such as “tender and passionate” or “dancing with joy,” to add poetry and passion to the conversation. Pay attention to your pace and rhythm, adjust the volume and tone of your voice to make it magnetic and charming.

6. Creative Scripting

Sometimes, preparing some creative scripts in advance can be a great idea. You can discuss some plots or role-play with your partner to make phone sex more lively and enjoyable. Try being a sexy superhero or a romantic movie couple; such creative scripts will add color to your phone sex.

7. Compliments and Praise for Your Partner

Genuine compliments and praise for your partner are the secret to making phone sex more intimate. Express your love and admiration, using words of praise to make them feel their unique charm. Your partner’s praise sparks the fire of their heart, making love bloom over the phone.

8. Appointed Moments: "Goodbye" Matters Too

At the end of phone sex, don’t overlook the moment of saying “goodbye.” Just like in real life, express your genuine feelings and show appreciation when bidding farewell to your partner. You can softly say, “I love you,” or promise to continue this mysterious rendezvous next time.

Phone sex is a unique experience in relationships, requiring sincere and thoughtful expressions. Respect your partner, maintain a relaxed and happy attitude, and approach this wonderful moment with passion. As you gain experience, you’ll find that phone sex becomes a confident and passionate way of expression. Share a fashionable and intimate experience with your partner, allowing love to blossom over the phone!